Graham of Anywhere

The self-centric blogs and tweets of a lost gay boy

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Hey! I'm Graham, a 30-something from Edinburgh, living in London. I tweet and blog about life, love, and purpose from my perspective as a gay guy, an introvert, and, ultimately, a lost soul.

Roam these pages if you're lonely and listless, or if you're looking for something but you don't know what, or if you feel like you're chasing a better version of yourself. I can't promise you'll read anything worth reading because I write purely for myself, but, nonetheless, welcome.
I don’t want to follow. I’m not sure I want to lead. It’s easy when you’re young. You don’t understand that you don’t know. And as you grow, your confidence doesn’t…
An averge adolescence
I grew up in a nice family and I attended a reasonably good state school, all within a nice suburban neighbourhood in the west of Edinburgh, Scotland. My parents split up when I was…
There is sadness in separation and there is pain in divorce. I think that holds true quite generally, irrelevant of scale, and irrelevant of whatever events brought you there. Division represents failure…
So I guess we’re going back 18 years to talk about a boy I dated for six months in 2002. “We” being me and the deeper, more subconscious part of myself. The part of myself which owns…
Today I reloaded QueerAttitude.com into localhost. It’s been 6 years since I’ve seen it in its final state, and it’s still frozen in time at 5pm GMT, Saturday 11 May 2014. I wanted to…
Beaches aren’t my thing but I’m currently chilling on a very quiet beach near the southern tip of Ko Lanta. It’s warm but cloudy which suits my pale Scottish skin just fine. Around 10 days until I return to London and I’m contemplating my next steps.
30/01/2023 07:15
I think the thing that confuses me most about Thailand is the enforcement of completely pointless rules regarding, e.g., where you can walk, and needing a little plastic bag for juice containers on the sky train. Seat belts, however? Who cares.
24/01/2023 09:41
Spent and a day and a half cycling around the Sukhothai historical district. I always forget how much I love cycling. When there’s few or no cars, it’s such a joy.
23/01/2023 01:12