The self-centric blogs and tweets of a lost gay boy
Hey! I'm Graham
, a 30-something from Edinburgh, living in London.
I tweet and blog about life, love, and purpose from my perspective as a gay guy, an introvert, and, ultimately, a lost soul.
Roam these pages if you're lonely and listless, or if you're looking for something but you don't know what,
or if you feel like you're chasing a better version of yourself. I can't promise you'll read anything worth
reading because I write purely for myself, but, nonetheless, welcome.
Wednesday 16 November 2022 10:35PM
Christmas is a day which I’ve hated since I was teenager. Maybe it’s a broken home thing, maybe it’s a consumerism thing, maybe it’s just about the pressure to understand your family…
Saturday 22 January 2022 12:00AM
I don’t want to follow. I’m not sure I want to lead. It’s easy when you’re young. You don’t understand that you don’t know. And as you grow, your confidence doesn’t…
Tuesday 30 March 2021 12:16PM
An averge adolescence
I grew up in a nice family and I attended a reasonably good state school, all within a nice suburban neighbourhood in the west of Edinburgh, Scotland. My parents split up when I was…
Monday 15 February 2021 2:44PM
There is sadness in separation and there is pain in divorce. I think that holds true quite generally, irrelevant of scale, and irrelevant of whatever events brought you there. Division represents failure…
Sunday 20 September 2020 12:04PM
So I guess we’re going back 18 years to talk about a boy I dated for six months in 2002. “We” being me and the deeper, more subconscious part of myself. The part of myself which owns…
Saturday 22 August 2020 9:12PM
Today I reloaded QueerAttitude.com into localhost. It’s been 6 years since I’ve seen it in its final state, and it’s still frozen in time at 5pm GMT, Saturday 11 May 2014. I wanted to…